Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation
Take ownership of your identity.
Have the space to organize your thoughts without needing to manage others’ reactions.
Overcome internalized shame and guilt over who you are.
Support for coming out with partners, friends, at work, and with your family.
Is Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation for You?
Confusion
Experiencing a new type of attraction or sexual desire can bring with it confusion over beliefs you had about your identity. Having a non-judgemental space to explore is important to deciding if taking on a label actually makes sense for you.
Internalized Homophobia/Transphobia
If your thoughts circle around defeating ideas of being “broken”, “not normal”, or “something wrong with me”, we can help guide you towards inner peace.
Fear of Rejection
Developing resilience and courage in the face of rejection is a skill of utmost importance. Living comfortably in the world and in your own skin requires that you understand your fears.
Judgement and Isolation
Reactions from friends and family can be difficult even when they are well intentioned. Feeling judged, misunderstood, and isolated is all too common.
Feeling Lost with Your New Reality
After accepting a new identity, you can live through a difficult phase of relearning. Things like dating can feel completely foreign, and that can feel overwhelming for some.
Relationship Strain
Exploring your sexual identity when you already have a partner is a challenge few understand. Having support during this period has made a difference for our clients in the past.
Dysphoria/Not recognizing your body
Feeling like a stranger in your own body can be deeply unsettling. We offer support to help you put words to your experience and find ways to feel more at home in your body and identity.
Desire to be Authentic
Ultimately, your goal is to be authentic and enjoy your life to the best of your abilities. Figuring out who exactly you are is a fantastic step in that direction.
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Free 20 minute video call to help you choose which service and therapist is best for your situation.
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Therapists Offering Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation
7 therapists offer this service in English.
Marie
Sexologist
Mission:Help people affected by oppression, sexist and sexual violence, or the feeling of being on the margins reclaim power over their lives and rediscover joy, pleasure, and a sense of belonging.Languages:- Français
- English
Locations:- Montreal - Plateau Mont-Royal
- Online
Chaï
Sexologist
Mission:I support individuals and couples experiencing disconnect in their desire, communication, or culture. Bringing them together in a space of pleasure and acceptance that allows their relationship and sexuality to flourish.Languages:- Français
- English
Locations:- Montreal - Plateau Mont-Royal
- Online
Maëlle
Relationship TherapistMission:I support people in designing deep relationships that allow them to grow and explore.Languages:- Français
- English
Locations:- Montreal - Plateau Mont-Royal
- Online
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Practical Details
Price:
$115 to to $130 CAD
depending on the professional you choose.
Languages:
English and French
Locations:
Receipts:
Receipts in naturopathy or sexology, depending on the professional
for private insurances.
Approach:
Sexologists specialize in issues related to desire, sexual orientation, and identity, while relationship therapists focus on relational challenges such as judgment, rejection, and interpersonal tensions. Both approaches can support you with most of the concerns discussed on this page.
Why Divan bleu?
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Choosing the wrong therapist can leave you feeling emotionally and financially drained. We're dedicated to making sure you don't live through that.
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Over 95% of the therapists who apply to work with us are turned away, and we get applications every week.
Divan bleu is your access to passionate therapists who rise above the rest in authenticity and skill.
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Our professionals master their approach, but they don’t hide behind titles, clipboards, or protocols.
You will receive help from caring people who put their heart in their work and truly care for their clients.
Specialists
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You won’t find inflated lists here. Just commitment to doing deep and meaningful work.