Sexology for non-monogamous individuals
Own your desires.
Get past performance anxiety and comparison with metamours.
Better communicate your desires and limits.
Organize your thoughts around multiple sexual dynamics with someone that has no bias.
Which professional is right for you?
Relationship Therapist
ConflictsLow self-confidenceStress or anxious feelingsLoneliness or isolationSee Our Relationship Therapists →$115 to $130Sexologist
Low sexual desireDifficulty reaching orgasmSexual blocks or anxietyDisconnection during intimacySee Our Sexologists →$110 to $115Psychotherapist
Severe DepressionPersonality DisorderTrauma*$150 to $180Divan bleu currently does not have any psychotherapists on staff. If you require this service we recommend Psychology Today.
*Prices are estimates from Psychology Today and not guaranteed.
Still have doubts? Use our tool to get some guidance or contact us directly.
Tool to Help Choose ProfessionalIs Sexology for non-monogamous individuals for You?
Shame Around Sexual Desires
It may be from internalized homophobia, sexual trauma, or just comments from friends. Shame creeps into the bedroom in many ways.
Body Image Issues
Fear around taking your clothes off in front of romantic partners is common. Comparing yourself to metamours can sometimes amplify that fear.
Group Play Dynamics
In non-monogamous relationships, group play or even the idea of it can present its own challenges. Performance anxiety, comparison, erectile difficulties, and a host of other anxieties can come up.
Safer Sex Practices
Familiarity with STIs and testing, how to have sexual health discussions, and safer sex practices are all important aspects of non-monogamous relationships.
Loss of Desire in Established Relationships
Maybe you experience strong new relationship energy with new partners and find yourself feeling guilty over a loss of desire for other important people in your life.
Over-adapting to Partners
Finding yourself constantly adapting your sexuality to different partners can leave you wondering what your own authentic desires are.
Feeling Excluded
When you don’t share a kink with your metamours, it can feel like you’re being excluded from a certain intimacy with your partner.
Exploring Kink
Unsure of what’s healthy, “allowed”, or safe? With poor media portrayals, it’s easy to be confused by non-normative desires.
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Therapists Offering Sexology for non-monogamous individuals
4 therapists offer this service in English.
Marie
Sexologist
Mission:Help people affected by oppression, sexist and sexual violence, or the feeling of being on the margins reclaim power over their lives and rediscover joy, pleasure, and a sense of belonging.Languages:- Français
- English
Locations:- Montreal - Plateau Mont-Royal
- Online
Eva Luna
Sexologue
Mission:Support you in the discovery of your sexual and personal development, helping you to free yourself from the social pressures that limit your development.Languages:- Français
- English
Locations:- Montreal - Plateau Mont-Royal
- Online
Marie-Lou
Sexologist
Mission:Supporting individuals and couples who are experiencing challenges related to their sexual and/or bodily diversity to regain greater confidence in themselves and in each other.Languages:- Français
- English
Locations:- Laval
- Online
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Practical Details
Price:
$115 to CAD
depending on the professional you choose.
Languages:
English and French.
Locations:
Receipts:
Receipts in Sexology
for private insurances.
Approach:
The counseling offered at Divan bleu differs from psychotherapy by focusing on the personal development of the client and their relational skills rather than on diagnosis, interpretation and treatment of a pathology. We do not offer psychotherapy.
Why Divan bleu?
There’s no getting around it, therapy isn't easy and it's expensive.
Choosing the wrong therapist can leave you feeling emotionally and financially drained. We're dedicated to making sure you don't live through that.
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Over 95% of the therapists who apply to work with us are turned away, and we get applications every week.
Divan bleu is your access to passionate therapists who rise above the rest in authenticity and skill.
Human First
Our professionals master their approach, but they don’t hide behind titles, clipboards, or protocols.
You will receive help from caring people who put their heart in their work and truly care for their clients.
Specialists
There's no shortage of generalists. Therapists that list 10 or more "specialties" in an attempt to get as many clients as possible. We believe less is more.
You won’t find inflated lists here. Just commitment to doing deep and meaningful work.